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When I was dating this woman about 2 years ago. Jeez where does time go. Anyway she called to break up with me. She was honest and then she asked if I was okay. I told yeah I was okay. She seemed shocked. I then told her that I was sad that we weren't going out anymore, but I was okay with it. The reason was she told me. I wasn't left hanging which kills me.

So back to Chamber Girl. I called her back, but she wasn't there so after 2 tries I left a message. I didn't know if she would call back, but that would be very telling of her if she didn't. So she did finally call and I said I thought she misheard me and wanted to know if she wanted to go out for drinks with me. She said yes, but she had a friend staying this week so she was busy this week. I was okay with it. I told her to let me know when she was free, but I'll call her next week to see what is going on. Nervousness short circuited my brain. I was surprised she was kind of flat on the phone. So we'll see.

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Can i tell you a secret mike? Just like most men like the challenge we like it as well. Call her once and leave a message. If she calls....great....if she doesnt oh well. I personally have a thing, if a man calls me three times in one day, i get bored too fast. Believe it or not some of us like the chase and the challenge as well.


I say forget her...if she was rude enough to blow off your invite on the first phone call and now she doesn't have the time to "squeeze" in a drink with you, then she's just not interested. She might be interested in letting your pursue her, but not interested in you as a person.

Honestly, I'm kind of surprised that you asked her out. From your other posts, she didn't come across so well and your opinion of her seemed less than stellar.

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