TMI Tuesday

1. Early bird or night owl? Night owl. I hate to get up early. It's why I open the office at 10 so I can sleep till 8.
2. Where was the first place you ever had sex? My bed.
3. On a scale of 1-10, how happy are you? (1 is lowest, 10 is highest) I would say 7. If I was more financially stable I would jump it to a 9.
4. Are you more submissive or dominant? Dominant, nuff said.
5. Do you believe in love at first sight? No. I've learned that when I feel this way to run. You may laugh, but I know its just my unconscious trying to resolve unfinished business and it's picked the best person to do it with. It didn't work out when I was young so the same type of person still isn't going to work.
Bonus (as in optional): Describe your bed time habits. What side do you sleep on? Dead center, remember that dominant thing. What do you usual wear? Nothing. Any night time rituals? Prayers, review the day, about it.

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1. Did you have to pay or did you get money back? Pay :(

2. What was your biggest financial mistake? Letting my ex wife stay home from work instead of paying off my student loans

3. Are you a screamer? Nope, not even a yeller.

4. What part of your body, other than your genitals, do you love to have touched? I love my neck to be kissed and nibbled on. What part of a partner's body, other than their genitals, do you love to touch? Women’s hair, I love it.

5. What catch phrase best describes your life? I haven't a clue so how about "Shit happens."

Bonus (as in optional): What was the last thing you took without permission? Cut in front of a guy on the Interstate a little while ago. Does that count? What was the last thing taken from you without your permission? IRS taking my hard earned money. Bastards!

TMI Tuesday

Haven't done one of these in a while since they've been on the lame side.

1. Stubble... good or bad? How often do you shave? Well I shave daily. Good or bad? Well when I was young and I use to kiss my Dad and he had sandpaper stubble it sucked. Personally I like to look clean cut, but I do alter with the women I'm with and their preference.

2. If someone shoves you up against a wall while kissing you, your reaction is? It's all good. Never had someone shove me up against the wall though. I'm usually the initiator of that.

3. Did you ever own a fake ID? No

4. Have you ever played a game which may require you or others to disrobe? No

5. Have you ever had sex in the snow? Rain? No. I have a problem with freezing my ass off literally.

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TMI Tuesday

Okay this week is going to be a boring one for me.

1. Which one turns you on more Ink or piercing? Why? Neither and more of a turn off.

2. What ink do you have? If none, what would you get and and where? None and I don't think so.

3. What piercing do you have? If none, what would you get and and where? None and HELL NO!

4. Any other adornments you like to do for your lover or have then do for you? Not really.

5. Of all of the above is there anything that is an immediate Turn-Off? Tattoos really don't do it for me. The low back one is okay, but anything else on a woman not turning me on. Piercings? The more you have the less I like.

Bonus (as in optional): If money/work place rules/your life/whatever what ALL would you do to your body in the name of sexual or just general adornment? Besides Lasik nothing. I'm very happy with myself.

TMI Tuesday

1. By what nickname(s) were you known as a child? Sorry no nicknames here.

2. Do you have a favorite poem and, if so, what is it? Recite it (or a snippet) here, please. "There once was a man from Nantucket ..." Really I'm not a poetry fan.

3. What is your greatest regret in life, something that you failed to do that you wish you did? I didn't go out with this girl Danielle when I was a teenager. She really liked me, but I was nervous and never got together with her.

4. You are tired and hungry, but it's too late to cook. If any snack food were available to you, what would you choose and why? Granola bar. Healthy, filling, and easy to eat.

5. What is the oldest item of clothing (not jewelry!) that you wear regularly and what do you love about it? My leather jacket. It's waaaay so comfortable.

Bonus (as in optional):Name a movie or TV show that changed your thinking or behavior. Episode One: The Phantom Menace. Yeah I'm surprised too. Qui Gong while fighting Darth Maul when he has moments of inactivity relaxes and calms himself. Helped firm up the need to quiet myself when things get crazy to better deal with it all.

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1. What was your favorite book as a kid? I would say the Five Chinese Brothers. Bizarre child book with different ways to execute a person, but I really like it. I even bought it for my son. Second up would be Are You My Mother?

2. If you were stranded on that proverbial desert island (again!), what book or books (up to 5) would you want to have with you? Eisenhorn by Abnett, Trilogy of the Red Death by Weisberg, Not quite sure what the 5th one would be.

3. What was the first "naughty" book you read and in what way was it naughty? I have no clue what it was called. It was something like a bunch of Penthouse letters together. Still remember most of the stories. I think I was 7-8.

4. If you were to publish your autobiography today, what would be the title? "Going Sane in a Crazy World." LOL that was easy.

5. Would you rather look at nude pictures/pornography or read erotic fiction and why? I would say the fiction since pictures just don't do it for me anymore by themselves.

Bonus (as in optional):Do you know the whereabouts today of the first person with whom you had sex? It was my ex and I know where she is.

TMI Tuesday

1. If you could live in any home on a television series, what would it be? Well on the coolness scale I would say the Thunderbirds house from when I was a kid. Secret chute behind a picture down into your vehicle. Can't beat that. A more grown up answer would be the house on Two and a Half Men. Nice place right on the beach.

2. If you had a clone, what would you make it do so you could have free time? Uh work and household chores, duh.

3. Who was your best friend when you were 8? No clue. When you were 13? Gary

4. If you could travel anywhere, where would it be & why? Japan. I've been such a big Japanese animation fan for 25 years that I would like to see the place it all comes from.

5. Would you hate loosing your sight or hearing most? Sight definitely. I'm a very visually oriented person and don't think I could cope with its loss.

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1) Do you have/ever had any dating or sex superstitions? (Wear 'lucky jeans' on first date, always light a vanilla candle, etc.) If so, what are they? Nope

2) If you were stranded on the old deserted island, and a genie appeared who could only grant you one wish -- to bring one of the following people to join you, who would it be?- your spouse/significant other- an unrequited love or some person you've had a crush on- an old/past love- your best friend - I guess I'll shoot for the best friend. If I was married I'd probably shoot for that. A SO and a unrequited love might not work out after a while. Past love didn't work out and I wouldn't want to be stranded with them.

3) Tell us "weather or not" you're in the mood -- how does rain, snow, sleet, scorching heat, sweltering humidity etc. affect your libido. Rain, snow, and sleet don't do anything for me. Scorching heat or sweltering humidity? I don't feel like doing anything in that type of weather.

4) Are you a crying drunk, an angry drunk, a 'I'm drunk, let's screw' sort of a drinker? (And, if you do not drink -- which one of those things is the reason?) I don't drink and none of these are the reason.

5) Who turns you on the most & why: the activist, the author, the care-giver/healer (nurse, doctor, masseuse, herbalist, chiropractor etc.)the comedian, the educator (professor, teacher, mentor etc.) the model, the musician,the politician,the scientist - What a person does for a living does nothing for my libido. They could be a basket weaver for all I care if theirs chemistry

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1. Last week was "The Most Wonderful time of the Year", but what are your favorite 2007 memories? Teaching Eric how to ride a bike, enjoying sex again, meeting a lot of great people
2. What is the best thing you learned in 2007? Wow I hate these questions. I would go with the realization like me my business needs certain things done to it everyday to stay healthy.
3. On a scale of 1-10, how good was your 2007? I would say an 8. It was very good year overall.
4. What is your wish for 2008? The usual. To continue to grow emotionally, physically, and spiritually. What is your wish for someone else for 2008? To grow in whatever areas they need to become a better person.
5. If you knew that you were going to die in 2008 what one thing would you do? There's no one thing I want to do before I die. As I go along I do the things I want to do ie. fencing, salsa, etc. Besides seeing my son more that's about it.
Bonus (as in optional):Do you make New Year's resolutions? What is/are yours for 2008? I covered this in my last entry. No I don't.

TMI Tuesday

1. What is your favorite holiday memory from when you were a kid? I believe I was 13. I had worked that year as a paperboy so I had my own money to buy presents. So it was more exciting to give than receive.
2. What is the "naughtiest" thing you have ever done under a Christmas tree? sex. Proposed to my ex on Christmas Eve and then we had sex before everyone came over.
3. On a scale of 1-10, how "good" were you this year? at least an 8. I make sure to keep my nose clean.
4. How long have you been playing TMI? Regularly? Jeez let me think. 3 months I think maybe a little longer. Yes regularly.
5. What is the most embarrassing thing that happened to you this year? L and I had just finished having sex on a piece of furniture. As we were getting untangled a fart slipped out. I was pretty mortified.
Bonus (as in optional):Tell us a secret from your past that you would share during a "Nobody in this room knows this about me" ice-breaker. I got stung in the ass by a bee.

TMI Tuesday

1. Are you done with your shopping yet? Wasn't this question here last week. I like being done by Nov. 1st.

2. What is your favorite sexual position? depends on my mood, but I would say the standard guy on top. I can see whom I'm with and still have access to everything.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how open are you to trying new sexual things? 7 maybe 8. I have lines on what I will have done to me, but more open on doing/performing on my partner. However I have no real example of this. I've always been the introducer.

4. What present are you hoping to get this year? I bought the Soprano DVD's I wanted. Besides that I'm not expecting anything else.

5. With your current partner (or your last partner) how often was the sex better than just good? It was always better than good. Only with my ex was it less than good.

Bonus (as in optional):Can a relationship that you are part of survive on sex alone? Could it survive a prolonged period of abstinence? On sex alone? No been there done that. I was abstinent when I was married for 21 months and longer single. So yeah not that I would want to again.

TMI Tuesday

1. Are you and early shopper or a late shopper? Early. I like to be done by October. I completely stay out of stores at this time of the year, although down here is not as bad as it was in NY.

2. What is your favorite cartoon (current or passed)? When I was a kid it would be Johnny Quest. All the cool gadgets and adventures. I like it so much I have all the episodes.

3. On a scale of 1-10, how competent are you on home repair projects? I would say an 8. Besides electrical (ironic since my dad is an electrician) I can do most anything.

4. What is your favorite holiday tradition? I love to turn on the Christmas lights and sit in the dark with the music playing and just relax and enjoy.

5. Describe your favorite kiss? Do you give it or receive it? It was with Brenda (the same I just sent a Christmas card to). My ex and I didn't kiss for the last 5 years of marriage and I really missed it. It was just nice to feel a women get weak in the knees again when I kissed her.

Bonus (as in optional):What is the best holiday gift you have ever gotten? DVD player from my ex and son. It was great cause it opened my world up with foreign films. Best you've given? Truthfully I would say it was the first year I delivered newspapers and I could buy everyone stuff with my own money.

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1. If your partner buys you a sexy little "something" is it a present for you or for your partner? I don't know they bought it and I don't read minds.

2. What are 3 characteristics of "your type"? great smile, long hair, assertive

3. On a scale of 1-10, how good a cook are you? I would say a 7. I enjoy creating things in any medium and cooking falls in that arena.

4. Tattoos: Love them or hate them. On you? On a partner? Not a big fan of tattoos. I don't have any. I grew up with tattoos being a guy "thing" and that still stands.

5. Stubble: Good or bad? How often do you shave? Smooth is always good. I shave daily.

Bonus (as in optional):What are a few of your favorite things (both sexual non-sexual)? Reading time at Starbucks with a latte, a really good kiss, looking out over the ocean and breathing in the salty air.

TMI Tuesday

1. Are you a member of the mile high club? No. I tried to suggest that to the ex, but that went over like a lead balloon.

2. What is the most public place you have ever had sex? An office, but it was behind closed doors.

3. What is your most embarrassing family moment? Wow. I don't embarrass easy and nothing comes to mind. Wait when I was 3 my brother's GF made a birthday cake for me and put it on the table under a Tupperware cover. I made plenty of roads in that icing. It was a big surprise for everyone when it was uncovered.

4. What kind of birth control do you use? condoms. I rather use them than rely on someone else.

5. Have you ever had sex in the snow? Rain? God no. I like to be relaxed and not freezing.

Bonus (as in optional):Describe your flirting technique: innuendo, telling a dirty joke, talking about sex life, or physical contact? I don't really have one except being real.

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1. What's the sexiest gesture a woman can make? Any gesture pretty much works for me if she is confident in herself.

2. What are 3 inevitable things about you? My feet are flat, colors will always be a problem, and I will never have an ear ring in my ear.

3. What do you want . . . . now? Well Spa girl just left and I really want to kiss her on the lips.

4. What asset do you have besides the physical and the material? I guess that only leaves spiritual which I'm very big on.

5. Describe a sexy mind. Some firm frontal lobes, garter on the stem, some makeup to highlight all the gray matter.

Bonus (as in optional):What are you thankful for this Thanksgiving? My health, friends, son, car, etc.

TMI Tuesday

1. Have you ever met a fellow blogger in person? Yes Robin over at Random Threads

2. Did you ever play an innocent game of "I'll show you mine if you show me yours"? How old where you? Nope

3. When did you get your first not so innocent kiss? About 12 or 13. We were at a friend of the families house. One of the older girls had loss an ear ring in the pool. I was the one that found it and she gave me a big kiss as a reward. 3a.If your partners are no longer of the opposite sex, when did you get that first kiss? Say what? Haven't kissed any guys.

4. Have you ever awoke with someone who's name you did not remember? LOL. No.

5. Have you ever let someone else wash you while you were perfectly capable of doing it yourself? No and a weird question.

Bonus (as in optional): What makes a great first date for you? great conversation and chemistry

TMI Tuesday

1. Do you believe in ghost? If so have you every seen one? I guess I never really thought about it. However I have seen and no I wasn't on drugs. When we first moved down here to VA there use to be a child that use to run up and down our halls. I never mentioned it to my ex and then one night we were talking about it and she described the same thing I use to see.

2. What’s the scariest movie you ever saw? The Two Sisters. I'm not a horror fan, but this was suppose to be more suspense. What a fuckin' load of crap that was. It was HORROR all the way. I didn't even finish watching it.

3. If you were given a house that was free would you accept it if it was haunted? No. There's just some bad mojo there.

4. If you were given a house that was free would you accept it if the last person had been murdered in it? Even though the odds of it happening again are astronomical that's just some really bad karma.

5. What was your most favorite costume you wore for Halloween? I would say 4th grade I was a werewolf. My brother's girlfriend did my face with a eye brow pencil. Everyone wanted to see it.

Bonus (as in optional): What’s your most memorable Halloween memory? My ex wife found out I had cheated on her on Halloween. 5 days later I stated to change my whole life around.

TMI Tuesday

1. If they kept stats of your sex life like they do in sports, what would you lead the league in? what all time record would you hold? I would say lowest amount of partners. Mine is 3. I need a connection with the person I'm having sex with to make it anything more than masturbation with another person. Record? Hmm how about 2 1/2 years without sex while single or 20 months while married.

2. What song gets you in the mood to have sex? best music to fuck to? best music to make love to? I don't really equate music with sex. Something non intrusive since I'm not really focusing on it anyway.

3. Where is your favorite place to have sex in your house/apartment? the bedroom. It's just made for it. Relaxation, space, etc. Other parts are great to spark something though.

4. (girls) Have you sent or given your used panties to a guy? Do you know what happened to them? (guys) Have you taken/asked for a girls panties before? What did you do with them? (non-breeders) What is the protocol for this "tradition"? WTF is a non breeder? Is this a person that doesn't date and just masturbates then saves their own used underwear? Never asked for used. I did ask for a pair sprayed with her perfume though.

5. What makes a kiss a great to you? like pornography. I can't define it, but I know it when I feel it

Bonus: Who pays for a date? If the girl asks a guy out, does she pay? If you are interested in same sex partners, how do you determine who pays? I'm happy to pay, but I do like a woman to at least say thanks for it. If she doesn't I feel she is taking it for granted. I also think this is more of a young person's thing. The older I get most women don't really make a big deal out of it.

TMI Tuesday

1. What are your 7 favorite tactile things that turn you on? Sex (like oral, or penetrative) cannot be an answer. (Examples: silk, light tickling, etc). Nothing out of the ordinary: light touch, nibbles, kisses, a firm squeeze and repeat.

2. What are your non-genital erogenous zones and what do you like done to them? My neck, definitely my neck, just nibble on it and I’m in Heaven.

3. What sounds get you sexually charged? A soft moan

4. After losing your virginity, what is the longest you’ve gone without penetrative sex? Two and a half years

5. What is your least favorite sexual position? Hmm I don’t think I have one. Why don't you like it? N/A

Bonus (as in optional): If you could sexually dominate or submit to 5 people - any 5, currently living or deceased - which 5 would it be? WTF? I have no idea.