A Little Less Fun

Getting a red flag with Fun girl. I had asked her out for Sunday and she said she would get back to me. She did text me that it wasn't good, but she would call me later if that was okay. NP. I texted her back if last night was good. She responded that she was already going out with her daughter. Again np. I texted her to give me a call or let me know when it was good to call her. Then silence. In this age of technology there is no reason for no response. If she didn't say anything about calling me I wouldn't care. So I'll wait and see what happens. I made the last contact.

The week has become busy otherwise with the singles. I'm happy to make time for Fun girl, but I need to have certain things happen to start to make the room. Until then I don't like to give up my healthy lifestyle. I've done it in the past and I've made a promise not to do it again.

What Friday Brings

It was great to have one of my patients bring in their newborn today. I always have to remember that in my vision for this office. It's great and brings a smile to my face.

I have to admit Fun girl has a impressive Mercedes. I'm not quite sure which model it is, but this looks close enough. I have to admit there is a little feeling less than looking at it. While I have never cared if a woman has made more than me, the car thing surprised me. Not that it will do anything to me in the long run, I know that I just have to acknowledge the feeling, process it, and I'm okay.

Update on my life insurance. Yes I do have another policy. I didn't cancel this new one yet since my sales guy said he was up in NY dealing with his father's prostate cancer. I do remember him saying that his father was ill in the past. Whether this is all true or not will play out. I'll give it a month or two and see. Like many things time will tell. People who don't keep to their word can't stand the test of time.

It's cold here today. About 25 degrees and we are breaking records. Hey I know most of you out there are probably under snow, but this is the south and any mention of snow is the name of the fifth horseman of the Apocalypse.

Bearer of Bad News

Well Fun girl and I finally communicated. The problem? Her cell number on her business card was printed wrong. I felt sad to tell her since I knew she worked really hard today and gave a whole bunch of them. She was happy to find out that the printer was responsible for the mistake.

Anyway it was fun to talk to Fun girl. Again I'm just hit by how natural it feels when we talk. So we're going to get together Sunday. She'll give me a call tomorrow to let me know her church schedule since she goes with her sister and nephew.

I wish I was deeper in the relationship with her so I could invite her to my patient appreciation dance. A few people asked. I told them I would be to focused on the patients to give her enough attention which is partially true. The other half is I don't really know her yet and I don't need any wild cards during the event. Like Facebook girl getting shit faced on me.

One of my patients gave me a compliment thinking I was somewhere between 30-35 age wise. This came up since she was thinking of trying to set me up with a 25 year old. Noooo thank you.

Wide Open Spaces

It seems to be one of those days. I awoke around 3:30 this morning and couldn't fall back to sleep until an hour before my alarm. So I'm really perky today. What I didn't need was my first patient to be a no show and the second to reschedule which has resulted in a big open space for me. I need to keep busy for fear of getting too sleepy since I still have patients later on. I did make it to the gym, but that was a while ago and I'm dragging again.

I think Fun girl's cell number on her card is wrong. The business number is correct, but the cell just rings and when I text it tells me it's a land line. So I emailed her back since she said she would be free till 11 this morning getting her car serviced and yes it is a Mercedes. A very nice one at that. So when she opens the email she'll know to call me.

I cancelled one of my life insurance policies today. It was suppose to be a better policy than the one I had. In a way it was in that the cost would never rise, but it's almost double what I pay now for my old one. It was also suppose to be half a million instead of the 250K that it was. However I probably would have kept it, but the guy who sold it to me is not a relationship guy. He may say he is, but his actions aren't matching up. I have a line of people who could do what I want to be done so I cancelled it. As usual I couldn't reach him so I left a message. I went through the momentary discomfort of stating my desires and waiting for that re-enactment of the past of having my wants and perception shredded before me.

I'm trying to plan what to do with Fungirl on her next date. Since she'll be near me on Sunday for church I think I'll suggest pool. She's an active girl so an active activity will be good and since it's freezing outside it'll have to inside. When I get to know her better I'll be better able to plan.

Tobacco is Still King

Yes it is here in the Old Dominion. The proof is that I'm coughing a lung up right now. I couldn't pass up free tickets to the Funny Bone tonight with the singles especially since I was hosting. Usually they have the vent system working over time. With the frigid weather outside that wasn't the case. Even one of the comics stopped his act to comment on the level of smoke in there.

While the show good as always we got stuck behind the 2 guys and there dates. Yes it was the stupid comment guys who think they're funny. The sad thing is I don't think they were drunk they were just assholes.

I'm happy to say I'm still smiling from my date with Fun girl today. It was a nice change to have chemistry with her. Whether it will grow or not I don't know, but it was nice to look over and see her smile a feel a nice feeling.

Post Date Report

Well I went to meet Fun girl today with no expectations. Actually I didn't think we would match up for some reason. Boy was I wrong. She was great to meet and we had fun talking. I thought she was in pharmaceutical sales, but she helps set people up who are house bound with medical care. Why she is active in the gym and tennis playing she admitted she doesn't have much of a social life and wanted to change that this year.

She was impressed with my social activity as well as my looks. We talked for about an hour before she had to leave. I'll call her tomorrow to set up our next get together.

On the other side of the world it's been a day of business meetings. I started my business coaching class this morning and it was followed by my weekly business workshop. Both were good and made me state where I wanted to be and what I have to do to get there. So I have a goal of what I need to do which is ask 36 people for a referral by then.

Mike's Fan Mail

Ah the Singles, how they can be such a pain in the ass. I was doing one of my usual culling of the herd. When you come in you get 30 days to decide if you want to spend the $5 annual fee. At the end of the time you get an email stating that you have been removed since we didn't receive it and just pay the $5 if you ever want to join.

One out 8 people freak at this. I mention this cause I got my latest fan mail this morning. I actually had to share my feelings with my friend Paul since I could feel the anger from the email. Once I shared I realized I wouldn't want the person in the group in the first place. Too bad the goober didn't put a name to their email so I could ban them.

Well I'm meeting Fun girl tomorrow for Starbucks. One red flag was raised with me. When we ended off she was driving a Mercedes. Okay I'm not meeting you at the race track. I'm meeting you at Starbucks. You might tell me what you will be wearing, but the car. Anytime in the past that a woman has done this, money has been a big issue with them. It's not with me so we'll see how it goes.

I do think if it doesn't work out I'll take a break from dating for a while and stick to it.

The Funzone

Heads down in silence in the passing of Barker. Okay enough of that, enter Fun girl. Did I mention I don't seem to have a problem meeting women. She straight forward and in good shape which I like. I'm waiting for her to let me know when she has some free time for us to meet.

OMG did I make a ton of calls today. Actually it was so bad that I had to make a normal phone call and I started with, "hi this is Dr. V". LMAO. I had to apologize and get the hell out of the office since my brain was fried. All my phone calls did work out well though. I was able to get 6 more people to come to the dance and schedule 2 appointments.

Oh the agony of it all I think I'm finally growing up. Besides wearing them for the gym I haven't wore my sneakers for the last 2 weeks. WTF? I figured I would be buried in my sneakers, but I guess not. In changing my dress I have been wearing casual shoes more. Nothing else really changed, but I have slowly been having to keep getting new clothes. I forgot the physics of it all. With all the muscle growth comes less room in my clothes. Pants aren't too much of a problem, but shirts are freakin' killing me. I keep forgetting to try my shirts on before I iron them for the week because it really sucks to pull it on and now have the cuff slide up my forearm.