Breaking News

Well a first is happening in the household. The landlord is letting someone back in that owes him money. He admits its breasts and a little girl. Not on the same body. Inverse is moving back in with her daughter by the end of the month. The funny thing is that Inverse is an A cup, but I have to admit she does know how to package the goods. As previously stated Inverse goes through jobs like women go through toilet paper. It never seems to be her fault is always highly suspicious. Anyway like last time when she stated she wanted to turn over a new leaf, she is again stating that. The landlord is going for it. At the minimum it's a lot of blog worthy stuff. Also I'll try to nab a pic of her for you.

I did feel vindicated tonight after hearing the plumbers report. The major problem was women's hair blocking the pipes. I thing besides the Escort every woman has had long hair since I've been here.

Tonight was day 4 in the evening marathon week. The singles and I went to see 500 Days of Summer. It was a good film and worth the price of the $1 admission. It's not a mainstream movie, but worth seeing when you're single. Like the narrator said, "its a movie about a boy and a girl, but it's not a love story."

Just Checking

When I got up this morning I had to check to make sure HR Bridge and Tunnel hadn't been blown up during the night. Since the Planner has removed all connection between us I didn't know if she would remove the physical connection between the Southside and the Peninsula.

The Escort has abandoned her room and all her stuff. I never thought a woman would leave her wardrobe behind. Bizarre.

Today brings some extracurricular activities for me. I have a lecture with seniors today about taking care of their arthritis and how to perform a hand massage. Their will be no happy endings. Tonight is my patient appreciation for my patients with a whole bunch of spa treatments. I can see why my lectures are poorly attended. Even though people really think this is cool many people just can't make it.

Medical Daze

I had my first official meeting today to start my medical marketing program off. I started making a mountain out of a mole hill with the whole thing. Then I realized I've done enough of these one to one meetings and everyone says I excel at them. So then I realized that it was the medical doctor part that was causing my concern, but when I accepted that it would be the same as all the others I'd done it was okay. The meeting went very well and I knew I could offer them more than what they were getting already. So I left figuring very good about the whole thing.

Today was the first time I needed to send a patient to the ER while I've been in private practice. I've made the call when I've worked with other doctors, but it was different today. However I knew her injuries from an accident were something I couldn't help her with at the moment.

My Landlord is trying to go out of town for the rest of the week today. Single is gone from the house, but Escort is a problem. She didn't seem to understand that not paying rent 2 moths was grounds for being kicked out. She was suppose to meet Landlord yesterday to finalize everything before she left, but that never happened. So her stuff is still in the house and he wants to get out of town like he had scheduled. Since he has no way to contact her now I hope I don't have to deal with her. However it will be great to have the place to myself.

Friday Fun

8 years ago when I left my atheist ways of 18 years and started down a spiritual path I looked for people who had things I wanted. It worked very well when I lived in NY since there was many people that I looked up to. However when I came to Virginia I have not been as fortunate. Most people were still learning and no one was ahead of me to learn from and I've gotten out of practice. So when I was reading one of my business books on the subject I started thinking of who would be good candidates. First up was Loan Lady and we met for Starbucks this morning to talk about what she does. It was very helpful. A lot of it was being positive and energetic. While I'm extremely energetic I work on the positive part. Also was the change of a few words. Instead of networking she used making friends which I adored. I know for me words have power and subtle changes like that mean a lot.

I'm a little tired today since I loaded my ACT program to help me track my business and where it comes from so that I can focus on what works and what doesn't. As usual I'm a guy and don't read directions, however with a little side tracking I got it working very well.

On the home front my Landlord stated he wanted both women out by Sunday. He's leaving next week for his train show and doesn't want them still there. The spoons in the garbage disposal last time probably didn't help. Single was suppose to be out by Sunday, but seems to be dragging her feet which is normal for her. Escort hasn't been home for most of the week so I know he was going to call her. It will be awesome to have to place alone while he is gone. Nakedness and blasting music will commence in 4 days. Woohoo!!!

My Wish

You know I've been wanting to be able to grieve the ending of my relationship with the Planner and my feelings have been dribbling out here and there. Well I feel them today while I can't say I have a box of Kleenex here, I am down. My focus is negative and I'm happy that I have nothing going on business wise today. So hopefully by the end of the day I'll be done and over this since even I'm getting tired of this.

Home life update: Single has been yo-yoing back on forth on leaving and staying. So again she is leaving and is suppose to be gone this weekend. Escort hasn't been home in a few days. My guess is she is shacking up with someone in hopes of a free place to stay. Hey you have to think positive.

Drak Clouds on the Horizon

Well I texted the Planner twice today and got no response. When I got home tonight I called her like usual and got her voice mail. So I left a message and texted her again to call me. Could this be the end? I have no clue. If it's a possibility I would rather it happen for something like this.

I had to admit it took most of the day to get to a good place with this. In relationships I still need for someone to say it's okay. I haven't been able to do that for myself yet in a relationship and this is the first time since I was married that I've gotten to this point.

On other fronts I had my physical today which is something I haven't done in about 5 years. Hey when you see a doctor in the mirror every morning, a handsome one at that, it's not so big. Everything went well and even had my first prostate exam. I'll know my blood work in a few days. The best thing about it was that my doc gave me a prescription for a year for my medication. This means I don't have to see my shrink for a year and that's a $200 savings.

The office phone was ringing very well today with new patients which was great. Still had my reschedules which I can't get away from. If I can't get the massage therapist off the ground then I'll focus on making my second room a second treatment room to counteract these reschedules.

Lastly Single is leaving the house and I believe my Landlord is giving Escort her walking papers. So things will change her again. The only bad this is when Single leaves the rent will go up. Her staying here has kept all the fees to stay the same. Oh well it was nice while it lasted.

In the Begining

In the beginning there was 3 reschedules. At least someone else wanted to come in. This week is starting off slow and I'm seeing if I can ramp it up. I stopped by the Royal Chocolate and picked up a dish of tasty chocolates. So with a card in hand I dropped it off at the doctor's office across the street. I haven't gotten any referrals from her in a while so a nice tasty reminder was in order.

To increase my sales ability I set up a coffee talk with a small business coach that I like. I'll talk to him tomorrow and see how it goes. If he needs that big chunk of change in the beginning it's going to have to wait, but if he can put me on some payment plan we maybe doing business.

Eric called me today all excited to tell me what he is going to play in the band. The baritone. I was surprised one because I had no idea what it was and it wasn't on his list. I'm happy that he is excited about it. My school pushed me into it and I hated every moment of it. The same with choir until I put my foot down on both of them and said no more. I have to admit those might have my first decisions in exerting some control in my life.

I'm missing the Planner. Only seeing her 4-5 hours a week, not including sleeping time is not enough for me. However I know with us both working hard to build our businesses it works. I do know if she didn't work the second job we would see more of each other on the weekend.

On the home front, the Landlord is giving Escort her walking papers. She's to be caught up with all her bills or be out by the 6th. I'll be happy if she is gone. She's a slob in the bathroom and I like having it clean. Also it would be nice to have someone else in the house that was with us instead of out there somewhere.

My Trouble In Paradise

At times I can't figure the Planner out. It just seems she wants to buck around and feel that she is still free. I brought up how I felt last night and it went over well. She went into why she kind of brought it up. That we are scheduled to see each other Wednesday and Saturday nights. I think the confines of a relationship get to her since I joked that I have her on the books forever and freaked. She didn't know what her point was, but she was thinking about how we have sex every time we see each other. We talked about it and we agreed since we don't see each other a lot that's probably the driving force. I told her if she didn't want to it's okay with me as it has been in past weekends.

She had some problem with all the women in my life. Most of my patients are female and that their are two women (Single and Escort) in the house I live and the singles events. I asked if she trusted me and she said she didn't know me long enough, I hadn't given her any reason not to trust me. So she was just doing so. Their were other points, but like I said I don't truly know what the point was beside what she said. At some point she just needs to say something. This may be a point that will drive us apart in the future. The Planner seems to have this black & white line in her thinking. She always states it from being adopted.

I find it hard since I want to take her serious and make changes that will help the relationship while still being true to myself. Since the Planner has never been married and the two serious relationships she's had were f'up me thinks she may have a unrealistic view of what a relationship is. Only time will tell.

My Day

I had a meeting this morning with a wellness guy. Holy hell was this guy mellow. I mean I could hire this guy to talk to me so I could sleep well. The good thing was that he lowered his hair since the one on his business card is about 3 stories high. It was an interesting meeting. Not quite sure what his point was, but I got some useful info and I set him up to help on of the groups I'm a assistant director for.
The Planner has her annual mashagram today. I told her to let me know is she needs me to give any of the techs there a drive by wedgie for squashing her boobs to much. Now I think she is waiting for my physical at the end of the month.
On the home front both Single and Escort damaged their cars. Single is delivering papers for extra money and in this area you pick them up by 2 am and have them delivered by 5. Yes 365 days a year. Not in this lifetime for this guy. I know I looked into it years ago and it wasn't for me. Anyway late night and not enough sleep she drove her truck up on a high curb bending the wheel. Escort on the other hand was following a truck when it swerved. She didn't react that fast and destroyed both front and rear tires on her Lexus. Now it's funny that Escort drives an Lexus when she doesn't have a dime to her name. Her baby arrives next week from her mom's. For someone who was in the Navy Escort is a slob and I don't know how she is going to handle being a full time mom. Being right next to her in the house is my concern and we'll see how it goes.

I'm Beat

I tell you I think I'm getting to old for all this driving. The drive back today was a chore. I slept later in the morning than I wanted to. One from waking up from a dream that something was crawling on me and two a patient called very early in the morning to leave me a message. So when I finally got up I just showered and hit the road.

Traffic wasn't too bad, but I do have to complain about NY radio. STOP freakin' talking over the music. There are plenty of awesome songs that have beautiful beginnings and endings. I don't need to hear you jabbering over them. Honestly WTF is up with it?

My butt was sore and I was just tired so I stopped at Walmart on the way home. I just needed to focus my mind on something else. I picked up a few odds and ends that I needed. The Planner had told me that they had snake plants on sale. So I picked up one for the office and a new pot to go with it.

I made good time back, but I just wanted to be home. Surprisingly enough I got a few calls from patients wanting to come in tomorrow so I was able to fill the day up which is nice. Since this was happening I stopped at the office on the way home. One to set it up for the morning and two to transplant my new plant. This didn't go as well as I thought. While the new pot was big enough the opening wasn't and I could hear slight crunching sounds as I slid the plant into it's new home.

To celebrate my return I used one of my free pizza cards from when I was a delivery person. Hey it's good to be the king. The house was slightly better than I thought it would be. Single hadn't left any dirty diapers around the place from her son. While she didn't clean the dryer after her use she did pretty well other wise. Escort (because that's what she does at night) on the other hand had left our shared bathroom a mess. Her shirt was thrown over my sink. All the stuff on the counter was on her side so that didn't bother me. As always it'll be an interesting week without the landlord around.

I Forgot My Camera

I awoke early this morning and Eric who is usually the early bird had a hard time of getting up. I packed everything while he pulled himself together. Breakfast was a bit of a chore to get him to eat enough since I really didn't want to be stopping a lot and since he now gets sick in the car when he eats it was a major thing.

I'm like this gas prices going down. Gas was $3.30 a gallon. Woohoo! I had Eric clean my windows to keep him involved which was my point of the vacation. This time instead of doing a lot I tried to do more interactive events. It worked out well and we had a great time this week.

I was really sad yesterday with it coming to an end. Actually so sad that I didn't really want to deal with it and had to work on not acting out on it and causing problems. This was the first time Eric was pretty good with the end of the vacation. While he felt sad it never got to the extremes that it usually did.
On the Chesapeake Bay Bridge Tunnel, which is one of the seven engineering wonders of the world, they have a tourist area. I always think about it, but it's $12 to use the bridge so I never continue thinking about it. However we were talking about it and I suggested we stop on the way home to take a look. It was pretty nice. We had great weather for it. I was pretty annoyed that I had forgotten my camera. The thrift shop was very typical, but the view outside 4 miles out in the bay was awesome.

The rest of the ride was okay. There was a lot of traffic in NJ and NY which made the end of the journey seem to drag. This time Eric was bored and asking "how long" and "how many more mile?"

Not living in a metropolitan area anymore I forget certain things. One is how pervasive Hispanics are in our culture. I was scanning through the radio in NY looking for a station. I would have to say I went through at least 10 station before I even got to one speaking English. I know the day will come when they make Spanish the American language. English has been shot down too many times.

Origami is the word of the night at my brother's place. My niece got some origami paper and her book is in Japanese with expert directions. I use to do origami a lot when I was a kid. I still know how to make a gorilla. So I showed her how to do it. I'll have to find a better book for her and send it up.

I'll sleep late in the morning hopefully then head on back home to deal with Single and the Escort while my Landlord is away.