Happy Time

I got a surprise tonight. Happy girl called to make sure we were still going out tomorrow. I was going to text her tomorrow, but she preempted me. We had a few breaks, but we talked like 2 hours tonight. Happy girl can talk I found out. Nothing wrong with it. She's entertaining and forward which is a good thing. The funny thing is that when I went to call her back after dinner I accidentally called the Optometrist. I got her answering machine, but I have to make sure not to leave different women's numbers lying around if they have become undateable. My hope is that we work as well in person as we do on the phone. It was funny I had to actually end the conversation since it was 10 and I needed to start getting ready for bed.

Keep your fingers crossed. If this new patient shows up tomorrow I will finally break a record with 20 visits for a week. I make 19 a lot, but someone always reschedules or pulls a no show and it never happens. Will it happen tomorrow?

Dating Subplot

I talked to the Optometrist last night. It was a good reminder why I don't date that demographic. She told me she was divorced, but that is official 2/19. While I know she's not getting back with her ex. I could tell she was new to the dating world. She grilled my on all my dating history and why they ended. How I looked, what I did at the gym, etc. I felt like telling her there were no guarantees in life and that she was taking the fun part out of dating. I did enjoy talking to her, but anything more than a friendship would drive me nuts. She was also the first person to make me being comfortable being single a bad thing.

I played my subliminal CD all night long and I got a good night sleep finally. I'm tired today from my body relaxing, but I know I need to keep it up. A good reminder that if I don't talk about my problems, solutions will never show themselves.

Last night was the second time this week I've had a sexual dream about my ex. While we didn't have sex they felt sexual in nature. In some way I think they are finish business dreams. The first one she was just on my back and that was the first thing I thought of when I awoke. My ex was always on my back for something. Last night she was on my ass. The same analogy was drawn from it.

I'm looking forward to my date with Happy girl tomorrow. It will be the first time that I did an activity for a first date. I'll see how it goes. No expectations which is really good. I do like her philosophy that if not we can be friends which is great.

Still no one for Gran Torino Sunday with me. Getting a lot of "no's" though. Sunday is also the big day. The day I start kicking people out for non payment of dues. Monday I'll get the flood of payments and complaints. This week has been funny with all the letters from people I have no idea who they are until I open and see it's payment for the singles group.