tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post6949091123312723710..comments2023-10-26T04:02:03.612-04:00Comments on Going Sane in a Crazy World: Still Legal!!!!!!!!!!Mikehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13641318104807962051noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-638284838868606442007-08-31T11:30:00.000-04:002007-08-31T11:30:00.000-04:00Yeah... I can see that. I would be hesitant to ac...Yeah... I can see that. I would be hesitant to actually get involved with someone who still hadn't had thier divorce finalized. It doesn't matter how long people have been separated, lived apart, etc... there is something about needed to know that the marriage is "officially" over according to the legal system.<BR/><BR/>Otherwise, it's just...worrisome. If nothing else, it would make me worry for you. Technically, until the ink is dry on the final decree, the ex can always come at you with "adultery" if you have any kind of relationship. Which is just scary!<BR/><BR/>Good luck man, seriously. But I'm way proud of you for being honest with potential dates!!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-3513238075764206312007-08-31T07:57:00.000-04:002007-08-31T07:57:00.000-04:00was she claiming she is in the military?i thought ...was she claiming she is in the military?<BR/><BR/>i thought she signed the divorce papers??? there is more after that???ACGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03566947935963041454noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-26997892457318362492007-08-31T00:44:00.000-04:002007-08-31T00:44:00.000-04:00Suzq - I doubt long just getting it on the schedul...Suzq - I doubt long just getting it on the schedule. Yeah I know I'm screwed with a bill, but hopefully I can talk him down.<BR/><BR/>M- see Cinn<BR/><BR/>Cinn - most women hate it and won't touch me. They want no connection. I can't blame them. Most people are only separated a year and in that time people get their act togther and youleave them alone. I may be way past that point, but I'm treated as such.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13641318104807962051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-4810360773553136422007-08-30T21:38:00.000-04:002007-08-30T21:38:00.000-04:00Very frustrating ! Almost there....Very frustrating ! Almost there....Constancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02702046097986873803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-22834612218028500392007-08-30T21:31:00.000-04:002007-08-30T21:31:00.000-04:00Oh geez!!! I hate, hate, hate it when the soon to ...Oh geez!!! I hate, hate, hate it when the soon to be ex causes problem. Augh! WTF?? Is she trying to stick you for something? I means seriously. What? She wants your damn pizza delivery tips? What? WHAT does she want????<BR/><BR/>Hey M - military is important because of the Federal "Soldiers and Sailors Act" which means if she were in the military she could say "no..I don't wanna be divorced cause I'm over here serving my country..etc..etc..." and viola' *No Divorce*. It was put into effect for bad people who were screwing our military members while they were deployed but it gets abused, just like all the other laws. Sooo..gotta prove she's not military.<BR/><BR/>At least..that's what I had to go through...how bout you Mike? Different explanation?<BR/><BR/>Good luck man!<BR/><BR/>Sooo..question...do you tell people you aren't divorced yet - when it comes to dating I mean. And if so...how do they react? I'm curious.....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-28691300003104535452007-08-30T19:47:00.000-04:002007-08-30T19:47:00.000-04:00So wait, I am confused. What does the militery th...So wait, I am confused. What does the militery thing have to do with the divorce?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-4149752910873548152007-08-30T19:16:00.000-04:002007-08-30T19:16:00.000-04:00Well, you can probably count on the fact that the ...Well, you can probably count on the fact that the attorney will bill you. They bill for EVERYTHING. I think it's some sort of sport with them.<BR/><BR/>Sorry to hear you didn't get your expected closure today. Any idea how long the rewrite will take?<BR/><BR/>Grrrrrrrr. The legal system bites!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-22853932447365193442007-08-30T17:08:00.000-04:002007-08-30T17:08:00.000-04:00Yes, Virginia is a weird state to be in. :)Yes, Virginia is a weird state to be in. :)cathouse terihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02547258612468286876noreply@blogger.com