tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post2829127186480460499..comments2023-10-26T04:02:03.612-04:00Comments on Going Sane in a Crazy World: A New Dating Rule or TwoMikehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13641318104807962051noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-18185069722347431262008-10-07T11:18:00.000-04:002008-10-07T11:18:00.000-04:00Ah, actually, not saying "I love you" within a cou...Ah, actually, not saying "I love you" within a couple months or so, isn't necessarily a bad thing. It could mean that they really only say it when they move to a higher level of feeling it. Heck, I haven't told E since January (um, before we dated, and it rather blurted out and I don't think he heard me). (I have joked around w/ him and mentioned, "It's b/c we all love you" which he DID notice but didn't comment on.) Maybe you fall more quickly than some others do, and that's okay. And, if a guy I was really into said, "See ya." if I asked him about helping w/ furniture, I'd be left confuzzled. At least explain it to your future honey why you're declining:)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-77325474610740247522008-10-06T11:41:00.000-04:002008-10-06T11:41:00.000-04:00Sunshine - I'll have to remember that.Jen - I don'...Sunshine - I'll have to remember that.<BR/><BR/>Jen - I don't worry about giving up my power since I work at owning it by being true to myself.<BR/><BR/>Annie - thanks <BR/><BR/>Anon - Yeah I know. I just kind of explode on the page and I hate reviewing what I wrote. It's a bit selfish since I know others read it.Mikehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13641318104807962051noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-78169061048908156602008-10-05T22:22:00.000-04:002008-10-05T22:22:00.000-04:00Mike, I'm a long-time lurker and enjoy reading you...Mike, I'm a long-time lurker and enjoy reading your posts. But man, you drive me nuts. Can you please use the following words correctly;<BR/><BR/>Were - past tense of "be"<BR/>We're - is a compound word, we are<BR/>There - is an adverb <BR/>Their - is an adjective<BR/>They're - is a compound word, they are<BR/><BR/>Examples; <BR/>1)"move furniture into there house" <BR/>you should have used "their"<BR/><BR/>2) "Their was nothing happening outdoors today" <BR/>you should have used "there"<BR/><BR/>3) "Hey were guys"<BR/>you should have used we're<BR/><BR/>Dude, please try to be more aware of what you're trying to say....<BR/>thanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-12008123361478506772008-10-05T18:00:00.000-04:002008-10-05T18:00:00.000-04:00Mike,I agree about your not being a mover. Maybe a...Mike,<BR/>I agree about your not being a mover. Maybe after you'ver been dating a year, that is okay, but in the beginning there is no point in being Mr, Helpful until they have proved they want more than just a pair of strong arms and back.<BR/><BR/>As far as the "i love you' thing... It;s just as scary for wone to wait for men to say it... <BR/><BR/>If you said it as soon as two months - and that IS soon because you really don't know someone that well yet - and they don't reciprocate and open up that they too have fallen hard and fast - it IS a red flag.<BR/><BR/>But there ARE nice women out there, just like there are nice guys. It's just rare to find them, and takes patience and caution... <BR/><BR/>A slow build-up, watching over time someone's behavior AND words, seems to be a good idea.<BR/><BR/>It won;t avoid the flakes like Planner, it'll just weed them out before you get so hurt.<BR/><BR/>(hugs)Constancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02702046097986873803noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-12428461296302175672008-10-05T17:50:00.000-04:002008-10-05T17:50:00.000-04:00You give up all the power when you say "I love you...You give up all the power when you say "I love you" "I miss you".Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02934909643713534157noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3771446067618745870.post-43344944423234605372008-10-05T17:11:00.000-04:002008-10-05T17:11:00.000-04:00Hey... now wait a minute, there are a few of us wo...Hey... now wait a minute, there are a few of us wonderful, caring, able to love, kind, sincere, friendly, thoughtful women out there... I just happen to be one of them. Do not give up hope, just do not say you love to move furniture.... this way your covered with the furniture moving and the I love you's.....Angiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01172470999422951354noreply@blogger.com