Going Sane in a Crazy World

My journey through life and the lessons I learn to help me grow spiritually.

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Hard, but Not Rock Hard

Talking to friends about dating and the mysterious no call back. It's hard not to become jaded. On the hand I try not to laugh at women who after one bad event are writing dating completely off. I'm a guy and rejection is a daily thing. You do things to lessen it happening, but it does. Not everyone is a match even though you desire it. I just wish people would be more honest with it. The best example was years ago after I got divorced I was watching TV and I still had cable an a reality show was on. In those days I'd watch anything to pass the time. Anyway it was a dating reality show and I remember this woman saying she wasn't into this guy who she dated and kept calling. She just didn't want to call him back and hoped he would get the message. Lady you just told all of America about it. I think it would have been easier to tell him.
Anyway what the hell was my point? Oh yeah Army girl. We're still trying to get together. However every time she says it will be this week, I'm starting to hear in the back of my mind, "yeah right." I don't want to go there. I know her schedule has been topsy turvy for over a week now. Army life so I know it's logistics problem at the moment. I guess so many blow offs and no return calls in the last week have harden me somewhat.

Well I have to big Singles events this week. Game night which is really growing fast is tonight. Charming signed up for it. Now it will be interesting if she shows up and if she'll say anything about blowing me off last week. Friday is the start of our Happy Hours series and it looks like our biggest turn out yet. I'm pretty proud. Now hopefully everyone shows up.

1 people had cathartic therapy:

Hello. I wanted to come by and leave you a few thoughts. I have been reading your blog and I have to say that I really like coming to visit. I think that your a great guy and if the women you have been with don't see that then they are pretty blind. I think that the woman you are looking for will come along and she will see what a lucky woman she is. Being that I am a 32 year old single woman I feel that there needs to be more guys in the world such as yourself. I only wish I could find a guy like you in my neck of the woods. I am cheering you on and I am sure that you will find that one certain someone just for you don't worry. Do hang in there and thanks for sharing your life with us.

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